You met someone online/offline
You became friends. Then good friends.
You started sharing everything with them.
You started talking to them every now and then.
Then you get attached towards them.
Suddenly, you realised that the bond is going somewhere else than friendship.
Then you started crying.
You wanted to ignore them, but you felt helpless.
You became addicted to that person.
From here, problems start to arise in your life. You lose your focus from the goal of your life.
You wanted to stay away from them, but your feelings didn't let you do that.
If you want to avoid such condition for yourself, here's how your maturity will work. Here lies the sign of maturity:
You met someone online/offline.
You became friends. Then good friends.
You started sharing your problems with them.
You talked to them. But maturity is when you know, how much you should talk with them, and what should you share with them. Maturity is- how often you talk to them.
When you know this thing, you are mature.
Because this avoids unnecessary attachments. This avoids sufferings. You don't crave every now and then to talk to that person. You don't feel helpless. You never lose your focus on your goal. You never feel weak. You just go with your flow.
Making friends is not a bad thing. But how you carry the bond in your life, to live your life smoothly matters a lot.
The maximum problems in any kind of relationship arise when they get involved in unnecessary attachments. At last, they have to suffer.
Maturity is realising attachments or expectations always leads to sufferings. Maturity is when you start avoiding such expectations or attachments.
